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Jenn's avatar

Okay now I'm hungry...

I do not love cooking, but my husband does (although he loves gardening more, so in this season of the year there's often plenty to eat but not much prepared!). Gender roles schmender roles. I love reading about what you love.

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Robert the contemplative's avatar

ha! yes. ironically most of the things that I enjoy are gendered towards women. who cares?

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Jenn's avatar

Quite. And I’m a pastor. It’s just…people.

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Thurston D. Gill Jr.'s avatar

Go ahead and let that thang ♥💪🏿♥

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Robert the contemplative's avatar

ayeee thank you!

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Mo Issa's avatar

Thanks for sharing your heartfelt perspective—it's inspiring to see someone embrace their passion so deeply.

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Robert the contemplative's avatar

thank you for these kind words

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jayneeisen's avatar

Same here, I love getting lost in cooking. Taking it slow and watching the magic. I’m originally a Memphis born girl and my family has some great southern dishes they have passed down. It’s the process more than the results. Yes, God is always present. Cheers Robert!

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Jason's avatar

"Being in my small kitchen all alone liberates me. When I cook, I become entranced in almost a meditative state as my anxieties, fears, and tensions slowly fade away. This meditation comes with preparation though! I get comfortable in my cooking outfit. I usually turn on my vinyl player, or an audiobook, or a podcast and allow myself the gift of play."

Very good...

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Robert the contemplative's avatar

thank you so much

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Elfie Beloved's avatar

Wow!!! Reading this reminded me of a quote that said “There's something inherently holy about kitchens.”

Thank you for your words!

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Robert the contemplative's avatar

I agree wholeheartedly

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Lori Fast's avatar

I also love cooking, but as a mom of 4, also think some days that we should just fast and take a break already! Love this.

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Robert the contemplative's avatar

whew. I also love ordering out for those days. ha

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Parthenia Fields's avatar

Letting it cook today, as I prepare to bare another piece of my soul.

Thanks for this, Robert! And, your meals look like they taste AMAZING. I fully believe, “Ya boy can cook!” 🤭

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Robert the contemplative's avatar

hahaha! Thank you!

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Mary Pierce's avatar

Lovely! Thank you Robert! 😌

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Robert the contemplative's avatar

you're more than welcome :)

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Eva Grammer's avatar

Lovely meditation today. I have yet to find the thing that inspires me like cooking does for you. But I'm looking.

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Robert the contemplative's avatar

ooh here's to you finding the activities that serve you :)

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BEE Channel's avatar

I love everything about this post. Thanks so much for sharing.

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Kate Palmer's avatar

Cooking heals my aching heart. Nothing else does what cooking can do for me. I am in my happy place when in the kitchen and I can 'be' whilst I 'do' whereas so much of my life it's the other way around.

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Nya S Abernathy's avatar

I would looooove the sheer honor of tasting your cooking. I have no doubt it is beyond-words good. And the way I am HAPPY seeing my book I your hands! 💙💙💙

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Robert the contemplative's avatar

oh that's so cool!

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